Monday, June 15, 2009

Random thoughts about a sad situation.

The friend that shared her good news with me last week isn't doing so well today. She is going back to the doctor today for more blood work to confirm that she is miscarrying right now. She has been bleeding for a week and the ultrasound she had last Friday didn't look like she was as far along as she should be. My friend is trying to stay hopeful but also be realistic. I just hate that she has to go through this at all.

I've always joked that she needed one more child but she kept telling me she was fine with the kids she had. Then she has this surprise pregnancy and started accepting that she was having another. Now that's been taken away. She's missing the future baby that she had been fine without just a few weeks ago. :(

Nothing I can say to her will let her feel how truly sorry I am that she's going through this. I was looking forward to helping her through her pregnancy & birth in order to meet the newest addition to her clan too. Maybe she'll decide to try again while I'm trying for my next one and we'll be preggo together.

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